Happiness in a topic we can talk about for hours and hours and we still would‘t find a unanimous answer what it really is. I guess it depends on every person, everyone sees happiness as a completely different thing. But happiness isn‘t actually a certain thing, we sometimes forget that it‘s more like a road, like a journey and not a certain point in life which will make you fully happy once you reach it. If you try to look for a specific point in life so that you could be happy, you never will. Happiness comes from the inside, not the outside. I learned this the hard way as probably many of us do while trying to depend on life‘s situations, on others, we keep on hoping to become happy when we‘ll get into university, when we‘ll find a perfect guy or girl, when we get the chance travel the world. Being happy is the best feeling in the world whatever that happiness means to you. When you are happy, you want this feeling to be in your life forever which, of course, doesn‘t happen because it‘s impossible to be happy all the time. But I think it depends on us so much how happy we are in life despite the life happening all around us. This is why i want to talk a bit about my tips on being happier.
✿ Be Positive.This probably sounds a bit cliché but seriously, it‘s so so important to create a positive atmosphere in your life. You have to make room for positivity by removing all the negative parts and put an effort to make life as bright as it‘s possible. There are enough bad and rough situations in life itself, so we can only try to bring some positivity ourselves so that our lives would be balanced. I try so much to look on the bright side as much as I can and I fail miserably pretty often and I know how difficult that is sometimes because by nature I am a person who always thinks disasters in her head so being positive actually is a tough work to me. I know some people are much more positive without trying that much and I honestly envy them. But you can be positive, you just have to try a little if you aren‘t already. it‘s really worth it, believe me.
You can fill your life with positive affirmations, hang them where you can see them everyday, remove negative people from your life (which is so much easier said than done of course, but it can be a very effective way), THINK positive thoughts in your daily life – instead of thinking „oh no, this will never work out“, for once try to think that it will, that things will eventually BE okay.